Lately, there has been a lot of talk in Christian circles (at least the ones that I'm involved in) about mentoring ... in particular, older women mentoring younger; older men mentoring younger.
And hasn't that always been true, no matter the term used? Discipling, spiritual parenting, sharing the Lord ... Of course, we think of Jesus with His disciples, then Paul with his Timothy (and not to forget, Mom & Grandma with their Timothy), also Naomi with her Ruth, etc. You get the picture.
But as we transition from May the month of moms, to June the month of dads, I would like to share about my all time favorite Biblical example when it comes to mentoring. This person had his spiritual head on straight ... his perspective was so right on when it came to his place in the whole spiritual scheme of things. So I would like to share my observations about my personal hero, John the Baptist.
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There are three important characteristics that I LOVE about my friend John:
1. John knew who Jesus was.
John was Jesus' cousin, yet John didn't really know who Jesus was until the Holy Spirit revealed directly to John,
Then John testified, “I saw the Holy Spirit descending like a dove from heaven and resting upon him. I didn’t know he was the one, but when God sent me to baptize with water, he told me, ‘The one on whom you see the Spirit descend and rest is the one who will baptize with the Holy Spirit.’ I saw this happen to Jesus, so I testify that he is the Chosen One of God. John 1:32-34
Once John knew Jesus as the Messiah, he was totally "all in." Even though a prophet is without honor in his own country, John's cousin Jesus had the priority and honor due Him. Look at some of what John knew through divine revelation about the Lord Jesus:
Jesus is the Light ...the One who is coming, who ranks ahead of him, because He was before him ...the Lamb of God, who takes away the sin of the world ...the One who baptizes with the Holy Spirit ...Christ the Messiah, ...the Bridegroom who has the bride ...the One who comes from heaven and is above all ...the One who speaks God's words ...The One who has the Spirit without measure
The Lord Jesus Christ and all he knew about Him was what John focused on and proclaimed. John heard from the Father about Jesus the Promised One, and then John spoke from that continuous revelation.
2. John knew who he (himself) was.
John had no delusions of grandeur. When asked by the priests and Levites sent from the Pharisees who he was, John right away responded,
I am not the Christ!
I love John's response,
I am the voice of one crying out: 'Make a straight road in the desert for the Lord.'
John knew he was a voice, unworthy to untie the sandal of the One coming after him. His job was to testify to the Light that was coming into the world. John was a witness. That was his role, and he knew it and embraced it.
3. John never confused the two.
I am amazed at how John never deviated from his focus, despite the fact that his disciples were leaving him to follow Jesus. He had no "Messiah complex," so to speak. He freely released his followers, pointing them toward the Christ.
I love the imagery John used when he described himself as the "friend of the bridegroom who rejoiced at the bridegroom's voice." He knew Jesus to be the Bridegroom who has the bride. So John's joy was complete to point the way to Him!
As John so beautifully stated,
He must increase, I must decrease!
What can we learn from John?
Whether we are the mentors or the ones being mentored (even by messages we read and hear), we need to keep these truths in the forefront of our minds:
1. The Lord Jesus Christ is All!
As John knew, Jesus Christ is the Light, the Promised One, the Savior of the world. He is the Bridegroom who has the bride (the "church," believers, the body ofChrist). He is the Sum of all Spiritual Things, as our brother Watchman Nee so aptly put!
2. We are all His!
All of us believers have the indwelling Christ through the Holy Spirit...from the youngest believer in the Lord to the most mature saint of God.
And like John, we each have a role to play. God opens the way so that we can serve others in a unique way and be served by others in the body of Christ in Jesus' name. And so, as the Lord spoke to my heart many years ago,
Respect the Holy Spirit in yourself and other believers...even young ones!
3. A healthy detachment characterizes healthy believers, young and old!
Each of us individually can learn to hear and follow the Lord day by day. Jesus Himself said,
My sheep hear [keep on hearing] my voice and I know them and they follow [and keep on following] ME! John 10:27
We can encourage each other to do that very thing, releasing our brothers and sisters to follow HIM even when their path may be different from our own. John the Baptist did this well, didn't he?
Our own freedom to follow and our giving that freedom to others is at the heart of spiritual growth. As Andrew Murray said of abiding in Christ,
...independent of all else, because dependent on Jesus.
Abide in Christ
Lord, Thank you for the brothers and sisters you have placed strategically in my life. They have loved me and taught me about you and your ways. Teach me to release others to You in Your name. You are our All and in all! Amen.
Remember your leaders who taught you the word of God. Think of all the good that has come from their lives, and follow the example of their faith.
Hebrews 13:7 NLT